THE ULTIMATE BEGINNER’S GUIDE TO BDSM!
New to BDSM? Check out this beginner’s guide to help get you started on your journey into kink from our friends at Couples Candy!
New to BDSM? Check out this beginner’s guide to help get you started on your journey into kink from our friends at Couples Candy!
Though it has largely fallen out of use, several queer people are attempting to bring it back into fashion, and there are a few artists looking to create a new hanky code or re-fashion it in new and interesting ways.
Some of you read that and say that’s exactly what you want. Others are a little turned off and ready to move on. If you think this picture describes most BDSM, think again. The hardcore stuff is great for those who enjoy it, but there’s a softer, gentler side to kink too.
The important thing to remember about aftercare is that it should be personalized to you and what makes you happy. It does not have to be intimate but it does have to be safe, consensual, and designed to solidify your good headspace.
At press time, “kink” is not a language you can learn on Duolingo, so here’s a handy glossary of some of the most common BDSM terms, from A to Z.
Weird Random Stuff on Kittens
“Puppy Play” is a subset of BDSM culture that involves a person or persons taking on the “primal” role and mentality of a canine and exploring nonhuman desires and headspace via that experience.
Show me a BDSM toybox without some kind of impact toy and I’ll show you a Dom that is probably thinking of doing some online shopping.
Earlier this week, the Italian tire company Pirelli shared photographs from its racy 2015 calendar: the 51st in its annual series that features naked and nearly naked supermodels in seductive situations.